How To Make A Girl Want You

You and I both know that you can’t just snap your fingers and know how to make a girl want you.  Let’s be honest with each other – there’s no “silver bullet” that’s gonna make her just fall for you.  But what I want to do here today is give you two big tips that are gonna help you out in a big way.

I’m guessing if you’re reading this then there is a particular girl you like, and you’ve probably talked with her a little bit.  If you are still working up the courage to talk to her, that’s a whole other thing; you should read my tips on how to talk to approach a girl you like.

So here’s the simple way that to get a girl to want you:

1.) Be Awesome To Impress Her

It’s kind of cliche, but it’s like this: you’ve gotta have something more important than the girl in your life.  something you’re driven to do.  not just because she’ll respect you for being driven, but also because she’s gotta know that you’ve got something more important than her.  A girls gets turned off when she’s the center of a guy’s life, but if she feels like she has to COMPETE for his attention with something else, it’s a big turn on.  She wants to be part of the adventure… she doesn’t want to be the adventure.

2.) Build Attraction By Making Her Feel Good

When you’re around her, make her FEEL GOOD.  Most nice guys do this by kissing her ass, talking about their feelings.  Jerks are just, well… jerks.  They’re mean and they put girls down.  And insecure guys just try to prove themselves and brag.  That’s not how to do it. Instead, you need to make her LAUGH and SMILE by being playful and teasing her – that’s how to get a girl to want you.   And you have to be ok making fun of yourself too – it shows that you’re confident.

This video demonstrates some examples of how to flirt with a girl properly using a ninja technique that I call “implied investment”.  It’s kind of long (I would definitely tighten it up if I recorded it again) but it’s full of awesome material.  I also reveal some huge mistakes that I see guys making, and what to do instead.

3.) Excite Her By Being Unpredictable

 Answer some of her texts immediately, but make her wait an hour before answering others.  Or be super friendly one day, like hugging her and smiling at her a lot, then be kind of distant the next day.  This unpredictability creates DRAMA and makes her work invest more in getting your attention.  I mean heck, she already knows you’re awesome and she already feels good around you, so just make her miss it and wonder if she can have it all to herself, and you’ll be set.

Make a Girl Want You: More Tips 

Helpful?  Well, this is basically the simple way to make a girl like you. Obviously there are a lot of little details… how to flirt with her, how to be attractive, how to tease her without being a dick… but if you can keep these three principles in mind, you’ll be golden.

So two things here:  first, leave me a comment and let me know what you think.  And second, get on my mailing list… it’s got all of my best tips on SPECIFICS for attracting women.

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